Christian right mega-church minister faces mega-mutiny for alleged abusive behavior
“Calvinist super-star Mark Driscoll is the iconic figure at the heart of a church empire that spans five states and fifteen locations. Founder of the Mars Hill franchise, Driscoll boasts a flock of 14,000 members plus hundreds of thousands of listeners and readers via web and print media, including, until last month, 466,000 followers on Twitter alone.
While fans and critics heatedly debate whether Mar’s Hill is a church or a cult, there can be little doubt that the brand relies heavily on a cult of personality. Every Sunday Driscoll appears on stage not only in person at his primary location but on life-sized screens at others. He opens at times with a rock band that one secular detractor confessed was “the best indie music I’ve heard all year” and that Driscoll himself has said will “melt your face off.”
Driscoll has a knack for getting attention and, in particular, for using controversy to spin up his visibility. During the second Obama inauguration, he tweeted, “Praying 4 our president who today will place his hands on a Bible he does not believe to take an oath to a God he likely does not know.”
Though Driscoll rarely dabbles directly in politics—his followers know implicitly where he stands—his comments about queers and, in particular, women have been a source of ire for many. When Ted Haggard, president of the National Association of Evangelicals was caught with meth and a male prostitute, Driscoll pointed the finger at Haggard’s wife: “It is not uncommon to meet pastors’ wives who really let themselves go; they sometimes feel that because their husband is a pastor, he is therefore trapped into fidelity, which gives them cause for laziness.” Outrage on the part of feminists merely stoked Driscoll’s fire.
Another time, he set the blogosphere abuzz by recounting a self-congratulatory story in which he advised a woman in his congregation that she should apologize to her husband for the sin of not “serving” him, and then should get down on her knees and give him a blow job. By Driscoll’s account this excellent advice caused the husband to start attending church.
In Mars Hill theology, female members are viewed through the lens of complementarianism, a theological position that prescribes separate roles for women and men including male headship. A woman being advised to get down on her knees and give her husband a blow job represents just one of a spectrum of submissive behaviors touted for females, who are encouraged to find their meaning in the traditional roles of wife and mother. The virginity of women is prized, and by some reports Driscoll’s late discovery and fury that his wife had sex with another male as a teenager became bizarrely significant in their relationship and in the life of the church even though he himself was not a virgin when he married.
Sex talk fused with God talk, or titillation more broadly, is a key component of the Driscoll brand. Driscoll’s stage persona at times has included tight jeans and an extra button open on the shirt. He once greeted a crowd at the University of Washington by reporting that he had gotten his genitals caught in his zipper before the show and that he would be stopping on time because his wife was at home waiting for him with a cream pie. On a more serious note, Driscoll has been a key advocate for candid conversations about sexuality among conservative Christians—though any actual “action” is reserved for married straight couples with the man—metaphorically at least—on top.”
You can read the rest of this sordid story here http://www.salon.com/2014/04/03/christian_right_mega_church_minister_faces_mega_muntiny_for_abusive_behavior_partner/
Its pretty interesting to say the least.Make sure you also take a look, and check out some of the extra special links, that are highlighted in red,right throughout the whole article.They are there to help explain the story
Still , it is very little wonder this sort of stuff still happens within these places,is it huh?
For there is no one detached from these group,that can be involved in supplying an impartial report, of what is actually been going on . Which has always been the real problem, right across the religious spectrum. A conclusion which is also backed up, by loads evidence, of all the ongoing faith/religious abuses that keep on surfacing from time to time
Thus how Church groups, can remain such prime ground, for all this ongoing abuse
People keep claiming that religious abuses , only amount to alleged abuse .
They wont take people’s word for the abuse that people personally experience
Yet governments and authorities , haven’t put any other form of checks and balances in place , either . They run around this problem , generation after generation. Acting like a bunch of stunned mullet, swimming in circles. Never getting anywhere. Never stepping in , to make sure change happens
So we are left with this kind of Mexican stand off . Nobody wants to take real responsibility. Everyone is busy passing the buck, looking for someone else to blame.And by the time the truth finally finds its own way to break through.
Loads of harm has already taken place
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