Anger: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly!

It’s ok.

Its quite normal.

Come on friends,nobody really has any need to beat themselves up.Or even beat anyone else up either for that matter.

Shifting any opposing views or beliefs we dislike, out of our sight, possibly isn’t an answer either?. As those distasteful opposing views (that disturb us) are bound to just reappear into our sight,once again,somewhere else anyway soon enough?

We live in a world of many different people.People who walked throughout life in different styled shoes https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/walk+a+mile+in+my+shoes

We may have once existed within confines of a cult world where everything had seemed so black and white to us all, back then. But now our world is splattered with a whole multitude of multitone color

Naturally its confusing?

Nobody should need to feel bad that its hard to handle. Or that (for some) it may even remain hard to handle, for ages

It’s all good. Its ok ?

Everyone of us react in different ways.Learn differently.Some learn fast.Some slower.Others perhaps never learn

Yet that’s still the multi color,nature, of humanity? . And one way or another, most everyone has at least one excellent attribute to still add to the melting pot

Try an be prepared to see stuff that may even trigger feelings .Some good feeling an others that may feel bad. That’s all part of life?.

Real life that is

And if anyone may happen to lose it sometimes, or even often. It still needed be any real real biggy right ?.

People still climb, and some day conquer hugely high mountains, all the time

Not even a failure, either,if perhaps some find that they are unable to. As they still totally succeeded ,anyway,in giving it a real good go (too bad that perhaps some people wont even achieve that.Well,until more of us, can learn how to help better)

That’s good. Whats more, the people who learned how to climb, can then also begin to try and help other folk to learn how to do so as well too?

People are allowed to feel angry.Allowed to express it very publicly too. Specially people whom have had their lives ripped to shreds ,through experiences within cults. And so on

Or how else will non cult members ever be able to begin to understand ?

There is miles of information available ,to help explain why expression of anger,isn’t totally wrong

Below is a link to one article ive found

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/anger-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly_us_5a38a081e4b0cebf48e9f6ee

 

 

 

 

 

About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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