I want you to imagine
Little need, for so many ex cult members, to have any extra need to try to imagine any of this kind of cult antic.
No . Most of us are already very mindfully well aware, of use of all these similar manipulative kind of tactic .We are well aware of it
Lack of awareness ,in this regard ,is not the real problem here.Is it?. As obviously,most ex members, of cults, are also all fairly well aware of this issue
So then, what else is there then, that can perhaps help to better explain reason for why ex members are not meeting with requirement being proposed?
I propose that ex members are simply become ill-equipped, with measures, of whats actually needed, so as to help them all then achieve the requirement of goals being proposed here, so as to help fund this drive to see justice served
Ex members become ill-equipped ,to have decent ability to help themselves, to be able to attend to this proposal
This is the main elephant in the room
Perhaps you might not yet expect to find this observation recorded, as yet, within regular education books being passed back and forth, within universities
Perhaps it might even be so
Even so,id still happily question, any idea, that im any way way-wrong by my act of assuming this “calculated” guess of mine
The alternative is, to consider that perhaps ex cult member are generally some how mostly all become void of their own ability for sense of empathy for others .I doubt that. In fact i feel i see miles of evidence, to help suggest, that maybe empathy is heightened ,by ex cult members own experience of feeling alienated and forgotten and so on
I seriously doubt that ex cult members lack empathy. In fact, a fair number of ex cult members ,will purposely choose to stay interested and involved, for reason that they also fully understand, how many other people, universally worldwide, are being forced to also suffer likewise as well too
So in fact its element of this empathy, of what directly helps to bind the ex cult groups of people together in solidarity
So lack of empathy, is not the elephant in the room here
What ex members of cult do lack, here, is their ability to ALL remain equipped to meet with requirement proposed (specially financially)
This really needs to be considered. Or otherwise there little good that will ever come ,from assuming wrong conclusion
Lets face it, fund raisers can choose to bang on and on and on about “please try and fund this” , becoming more blue in the face by the day ,forever and ever an a day, even perhaps as far as until the cows come home.
Still to little avail ?
And simply because, there’s no amount of coaxing, of what will ever actually “help to change” the reality that’s being faced here
Wont alter the main elephant in the room
I dare, anyone to care to prove how i’m so-wrong by my act of declaring this ?
I dare anyone. Anyone here have enough guts, to try to disprove what ive assumed is the main problem here?
I’d love to see it
We are not magician .Even although a number of us can feel frustrated to need to accept how we are absolutely not like a magician . It’s not as if we enjoy this feeling.We would seriously love to be able to help far more, too. Little doubt about it. So much enjoyment can be gained, for oneself, from being able to be helping others out
In fact ,with some of us, this idea has always been a constant aspiration of ours of what we’d had, and even ever since as far back as we feel like we can even remember back too .This is in fact reality of this situation here
We are in fact, become highly tuned toward empathy toward others
The elephant in the room here, is more to do with the fact that people are not clones. Their lives are not cloned lives either, that work out similar clockwise. Situations vary .Luck can even vary immensely too. All kind of considerations can come into play here. Luck, genetics, and or religion or so many more other factors of life
This situation, should become a valid learning curve for ex cult members to finally begin to heed this time around ?.
Just all just try to imagine, ourselves, the feelings of pressure and suffering, of like what a non scientist might experience?
Bad enough, to need to be a well-educated person being faced with feeling pressure of coming under attack by powerful . Now try to imagine too, how a un educated person might otherwise begin to feel themselves. Sense of hopelessness what might face them
My point is. For a number of differing reason, many ex cult members are simply become ill-equipped, to be able to front up with what’s being proposed here
This is simply the stark reality of the situation at hand
This is the real main elephant in the room here. This is what need fairly prompt attention too . As without prompt attention, this wont ever change, so much, anytime soon?
This is the elephant in the room here. This is the root cause ,here, of what’s been constantly going wrong
This can even help to explain how a number of suicide have had to happen. When in fact , far better management might have otherwise helped to have made a whole load of difference
I don’t mind assuming that this might in fact be correct
People, for now, are feeling and experiencing, what it feels like, to feel like being caught between a rock and a hard place .Myself included. Id seriously love to feel able to do far more to help out
Only people who are destined to need to fail time again and again and again, would be the kind to also dare, to overlook this elephant?
George Santayana. Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.
Ex cult members ,would do well ,to finally begin to learn way-more, from past experience
- Cults are not about to cease with acts of litigation anytime soon
- groups of religious people, are unlikely to care to face the reality that freedom of faith, is a myth ,anytime soon either
Therefore it is the responsibility of ex cult members to learn how to create better ways ,in which to then in turn take far better care of all of their own needs ,themselves
This is reality
Not necessarily the nicest reality .To need to be faced with. But still stark reality never the less
Obviously ,there are few theist who’d even actively care to bother to take pity on cult members lot
No use us dwelling on this reality either ?. You can lead a horse to water, but you still wont ever make it choose to drink
Far better that ex cult members would unite and face the situation head on, themselves, and then also begin to actively attend to exactly what needs to change here
The time is way overdue ,that ex cult members would begin to unite so as to then also be able to take cults on, at their own game
Time is now already way long overdue that this would begin to happen
Besides, perhaps God loves people most of all, who can also learn how to help all of themselves ?
That there, would in itself, soon enough become complete total defeat of all these cults, expectation
This highly organized movement ,might then also begin to help serve to highlight the ex cult members plight
Ex cult members main strength could become the way they learn to put aside faith differences, so as to still retain solidarity together
This strength, is a trait of what cults themselves,all have
no so little hope of ever achieving ?
Solidarity of love can indeed, help to overcome evil forces