Sorry if ive upset someone

Ex eb are the type of people who STILL remain so worried, about thought of being someone who’ll perhaps maybe end up upsetting someone else

Here is one ex ebs recent comment


 it seems the word I used hit a raw nerve with some. Maybe I should’ve worded a different way.

end quote

Relax yourself about it

There’s no reason for you to apologize. You did nothing wrong. Just feel you can “be yourself” (so it doesn’t always feel like “tip toeing” around, over broken glass)

Human will get upset due to certain  things what trigger them anyway

Its normal emotional reaction

But yet, that cannot always be totally avoided either?

Its still important, to not let these things be able to totally wipe away option for freedom of speech and ongoing discussion

Or otherwise we cannot make progress

For instance. Had the Brethren group not also been , TOO BUSY ,  with being also focused with trying to not ever dare to upset anyone-else 

Things might have even been able to come-out way differently than they did?. Even @ Aberdeen ?

Human need to get over the ridged “black and white” way of thinking.To let go of their fears of what can work to also stifle human ability to make change

God (a decent kind loving one anyway) certainly would want it to be that way?

Even Jesus was seen as being a bit of a miss fit, who’d happily even dare to have spoke out of turn? (in the eyes of “some others” ,they’d obviously felt like he were GUILTY of doing so, anyway)

Nobody should really need to be exactly right?

Should they

To still be feeling loved ?

Like, if Jesus were to say something similar to this here

my god, my god, why have you forsaken me

Acting as if he might even have been busily wondering, where a-God  actually is. After he’s been left suffering , and suffering, so bad.

Then surely, any decent kind person, should still at least forgive the man for feeling that way

Accept the thought, of how much faith is actually required, so as to believe

We were not upset at what Peter had said

We have more concern about caution . Cautioning people about what we could be dealing with, perhaps

We ex member should even need to remain cautious toward so-called softening of cult regulation ?

Or have we simply forgotten all about the MANIPULATIVE goings on WHAT HAPPEN within the  so called-review?

Be wary of softening of regulation of what don’t happen right across the ex eb

Perhaps you are being used,  by Brethren, like how a pawn is often used like as well too?

Perhaps consider, they’d like to try and cosy-up to a certain select few

Just so as to help lesson the heat  overall

Just saying

The ones now allowed to be back in touch with brethren family

Might choose to still ask themselves this question

Are the Brethren family you meet, displaying honest open concern for all the other MANY people who have yet to rekindle family relationships ?


If there is such a thing as a devil

Don’t think

Don’t bother to think the crafty bastard wont still be cunning-as a sly fox

Lets also remember

Its also the evil of feeling of indifference toward others

Of what has even ORIGINALLY allowed FOR this whole sad situation, to evolve ,EVEN in the first place

Brethren MAY BE KEEN, that any family they purposely choose to rekindle relationships with, might then also EVEN SOON begin to BECOME PREPARED to againforget about others, who have not yet done so

Using them similar way to how pawns also-are cunningly used too, a chess game

Just saying

And possibly they STILL wont like the general idea of this idea below

“One for all and all for one”

Perhaps as, this STILL isn’t their own ideal idea, of a real brotherhood

Is it?



About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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