How Being Sexually Molested As A Child Shapes A Person As An Adult

Makes me wonder how many times this sort of thing happen in high control groups

There might be will be people who’ll be forced to need to sit, on opposite sides of the meeting room?. It will occur in Brethren meeting rooms. Where sex abuses have been swept under the carpet

Disappointing outcome for everyone involved


This should need to be understood

And so check out the attitude of perpetrator in the video above.Take note of the extremely arrogant behavior on display here

Consider how the person, really ought to be feeling empathy and compassion

Rather than be able to do so. They’ll rather to make all kind of excuses.

And perhaps partly because of reason how they may also feel messed up and confused, as well.

For sure,there will also be people who’ll react in similar way from Brethren backgrounds. All because rather than address these problem properly. Brethren have instead chosen to sweep sex abuses under the carpet


To uphold pride and ego of their cult

But its a false pride isn’t it. Even the situation surrounding James Taylor Jr

Naturally there will be people who may even remain defensive, about the truth of the matter of what had happened at Aberdeen too as well?. I doubt Brethren will begin to realize the full extent of collateral damage and harm, that has been caused, due to the Brethren pride

How can people learn properly to discern right from wrong?

Unless those who control hierarchy would also KNOW to act responsibly

Its been able to have turned into one huge great big mess

So sad

What was our governments thinking ?

Where were any “outside” system of checks and balance


In our country, our government is STILL so focused on pampering religion.

Even going so far as to issue all these group with charity status.  Which in reality is like an ULTIMATE  insult , to survivor of  abuse


All the while they also look to save themselves from any responsibly in regard to spending the government coffer money, through ACC cover, on brain injury , such as PTSD

Those brain injury cannot be seen by human eye?. Without use of brain imaging technology

If your brain cannot be seen to bleed. Seems, to me ,they figure they won’t need to care. Don’t want to know about it

When you go to psychologist. ACC may cover survivor for sex abuse. But anything else outside of that trauma, such as trauma involved in disowning ones own sister, due to cult dictate, when aged only around 5 or 6 . Or traumatic aftermath of siblings attempt, at committing suicide. And so much more

It not going to fall within stipulated guideline . For ACC cover

Meanwhile our prime minister, Jacinda Kate Laurell Ardern, can be seen on TV publically waffling on about how we are all


One people

As if everyone of us is forced to deal with these situation?

Due only to fate of birth

Why wont government extend the ACC cover ?

I hazard to guess they already know how costly it will end up being

Should they dare to do so

Then the flip side of this might be. That they will then also need to reconsider regulation of religion. Possibly have need to further regulate . To help stem the cost

Meanwhile they’ll then also face back lash. From the highly ORGANIZED  religious groups


And even highly organized Christian lobby groups too as well perhaps?

Quite possible?

Oh what one huge ugly mess

The wicked web that’s been weaved


People in responsible position ought to be ashamed of themselves

That have let so many citizen down. That’s not any great position for any government to be faced with, when up and coming elections are also not so far off in the future, either

Only the blind  silly politician would be unintelligent enough  to allow citizen to feel left out and unnoticed and forgotten

Isn’t it?




About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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