Systemic inter-generational abuse in NZ

Government been plastering over the cracks . Doing no more than to constantly apply more and more band-aid .

Which never ever HELPED TO fix anything

Turning a blind eye for far too long. Allowing whanau (family) to fall out of touch with each other. To grow apart. Lose sight of their whanau (family)connections

Sound somewhat familiar to us ex cult members too, doesn’t it?

Like i proposed some months earlier (you can read what id said, in blog post what ive purposely “pinned” right at very top of this blog) ex cult members have certain things in common with first nation people 

We all lost touch with our family (Whanau) through systemic failure

People who remain unaffected . Are indifferent to suffering only experienced by certain unlucky people

Our lives have been left up to luck 

Seems government has not had decent checks and balance system set in place

Pity the Bruce Hales  wasnt ISN’T a far bigger man. As if he were, then he might have helped to heal and change this situation, WELL BEFORE NOW?

But greed had overcame our governments in same way that it also overcome hierarchy of high control groups

Compassion and empathy went out the window. Was left to be trashed in the dirt


Indifference is this way become the scourge of this earth

The overflowing detrimental harm, of this indifference, is huge

It not only affects ourselves. But sadly even also overflow so as to even continue to harm and hurt our offspring as well too. They were forced to need to miss out on contact with Whanua links. Lost any chance, they might otherwise have had, to even be able to get to know their own grandparents 

Sad or what?

At times, children were BLATANTLY separated from parents as well too


Our Government’s have let us all down

Shame on them

Even Maori children, were also faced with the SAMEspare the rod spoil the child warped mentality as well too

Who was watching out for us ?

Who had bothered to share with us in our pain ?

Whole generation

Been wasted away and lost forever


About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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