Ex Exclusive Brethren suicides, Memorial Project Research

Thank GOODNESS  for wayback machine . Or otherwise the details of Memorial Project, might have been lost

Here is the wayback link, below


Ex eb forums  start up. All sorts of people will contribute. Next moment, for whatever reason, the forums gone.

To bad for people who cared to contribute

What about them people though?

Seem to be hard to run ex eb forum,under the “one for all and all for one” theme  . Similar to like this here https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=all%20for%20one%20and%20one%20for%20all

Its as if, this is what high control groups do to people. Im starting to wonder if Christendom is specially not  concerned to care for others. To look out for others. To have the back of others, less they be set-on by robbers (don’t very often make typical good Samaritan types, after all ?)

Which is strange (in my view)

For one thing, ive observed that Christian will be quick to point out that Christian should not take another Christian to court.

As that would be wrong

Here is a verse they use . See here https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+6&version=NIRV


1 Corinthians 6 New International Reader’s Version (NIRV)

Do Not Take Believers to Court


end quote

I guess that’ll then mean that the non believer are fair game then? . Sort of lower class citizen. “Atheist-leper” untoucable trash

To take atheist to court is sweet-as. No worries

Yeah, why no help yourself, just go for it


Unbelievable? . Still cannot help but try to see the funny side

Hee heee

No sense in allowing it to depress us

If they feel they feel good about being like that

Who am i to question ?

Make one ponder, the thought, though.How does a Christian follow the bible verse above?. Yet also pretend to follow  Luke 6:31 , as well too


Do to others as you would have them do to you.


end quote

How does that work then?

Does this mean,because Christian feel free to discriminate against atheist.

Then they will also expect, that atheists, will sooner or later also begin to reciprocate and discriminate against Christian,in return 

Or what?

Haaaaaa. What a muddled mess Christendom belief seem to pose

Pretty much what had happen, anyway, with (so called) new atheist . They got so sick of Christian mistreating them like as if non believer were like second class citizen

Now the atheist are actively working against Christendom.

Retaliating we might say?


Man on Man Didn’t that create a “Christian persecution” feel though . Those nasty non believer ?

Hee hee

I keep saying here on this blog. Christian can SOMETIMES seem to become  like their own worst enemy

Worse thing is, how slow they are to see it themselves?. Not aware enough perhaps. Far to concerned with intricate scripture and all manner of rules and regulation and so on perhaps. What keep them way to occupied. Who knows ?

Maybe that is the reason behind this other follow verse below though


This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.

For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,

Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,

Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;

Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.



end quote

Maybe Jesus were ALREADY well aware, HIMSELF, of  inhuman ways what they too often had acted like “toward others” . Even way back then,thousands of years ago

Certainly seem to display little NATURAL “AFFECTION” anyway, from my view (IE:generally speaking). From point of view of my own awareness of a number of my own experiences

False accusers? . Well i suspect most of those will usually occur in secret?. Kangaroo court style


I could tell a story or two, about a couple of ex eb in particular. But hey, i wont bother. I was originally feeling very hurt about this particular experience. So was another ex eb frind of mine as well too. But then, as time went by, my own hurt has turned into pity. And i then began to see that this  bad experience, was also actually a very good experience for me as well (on the flip side), as it were an important lesson for myself to learn from.

This is the silver lining

Having learned from it, i also had begun to see how easy it would also be for other ex eb to also be able to fall into similar trap, as well like the one what i already had fallen-for myself

I value to see that CLEARLY now

I do

Now my focus is to move forward. To try and be on watch-out for both myself and others as well to, whenever i’m able to.

Because i now learned how lonely it can feel to be let down by people who’d pretended to care

That tough feeling to handle


That has still been an important lesson, for me, to heed and learn to take very good note of

That’s a bonus

Empath’s  are the kind of people who can be way to trusting.Way way to trusting perhaps.However its in our nature to be trusting like that though.It enables us to care freely

Even within the Brethren’s bullshit review, i were way to trusting. To keen to kill the fatted calf  (so to speak) and forgive freely without question

But hey, that’s still ok, so long as we also still learn something good from it?

At the end of the day, what did i really lose so much anyway?

Have i lost touch with loving kind caring people?

Have i ?

No. Not really

Did i lose people (family) who were honest in caring and loving, who were compassionate and full of empathy for others who’d been wronged

Did i ?

No.I don’t think so

All i lost , within the review , was my own foolishness for being way way to trusting of thoughtless people. Due to my own stupidity of trusting heartless narcissist types, who’d care way more only about themselves

I lost my naive ways of being  way way to gullible for my own good

That’s mainly all ive lost ? . So its actually a bonus, then ?

And in reality this is in fact, my-gain




We do well to look for the silver linings

There will be plenty

We don’t care to look hard enough. Then perhaps we might also even miss seeing  any of them though

I’m now feeling thankful for these lessons learned


About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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