Message for Brethren

I feel there’s a message here for Brethren. Even their rapid relief team is part of this message within this here video?

Their “we are persecuted misunderstood Christian” line of attack

It needn’t be this way?

Many ex eb wonder why i havent been to the law about my own detrimental experience among Exclusive Brethren. Reason is, i have understanding of  Brethren with regard of reason why they are who they have become. They chose to be this way. Even although they had the right, to refuse, to accept the road they have taken.

Yet generally speaking, it were a mistake made through falling victim to misguided teaching

I have empathy and compassion in this regard

Whats more, they still have an option open to them all, to begin today to change their road, at any moment. But only they themselves can choose this

Its certainly not an easy road to choose. I know this through experience. Its even harder road too, when you are someone walking the road alone in life. Someone who wont have one flesh and blood brother who’ll be there to care to help cover you, like if perhaps for some reason you may become unavailable to keep an important meeting that’s been preset to happen at a certain given time and place. You’ll have no body to care for you, to back you up, to stand by you and let other people know that you are in fact honest and trustworthy person. You’ll have absolutely nobody to help you. Whats worst of all, there may even be other well meaning ex ebs , who’ll set about with back stabbing you too, behind the scene

But shit happens. Nobody ever promised you that your life would be like a bed of sweet smelling roses. Did they?

But this is life. This is life without sugar coating the situation

Through empathy, and through experience of my own failure. I’m able to better understand Brethren’s ways as well

Together we might have all been able to do so much more to HELP  make our world a better place. This is what saddens me. However, i wont let this stop me from continuing on. I have little regrets, because even although the road ive trodden alone has been fraught with many pitfalls. Overall , its still been rewarding. I’ve learned so much about the so called “worldly” people. So many wonderful things. So many heart changing things. And the pay off is this, even at this very moment right now, should i ever need it, there are homes all around New Zealand where all i’d need to do is to arrive on the peoples door step, and i’d be promptly welcomed in, like as if i’m just another one of the whanau (extended family)

Human share same genes.We are one people in this regard.

Color of skin is merely skin deep

I never could have been able to have learned these things, ever, if in fact i’d chosen to remain among Brethren. It wouldn’t be possible. As i would of remain a bigot. A complete bigot, who’ll believe that “goodness” can only ever exist among Brethren

So,therefore there is been a huge silver lining to these struggle.And thinking back about these struggles now, i now realize how i actually wouldn’t want to change a thing

Call me and optimist. Call me a dreamer. Call me any name you’d like. I don’t mind. The thing is, i’ll expect that i might have been called worse names already. Because, there are people, who’ll spy our weaknesses. They’ll soon see how little “back up” we are forced to live with. They’ll take advantage  of our own inability to get close to people, all the things of what we were cursed with since we were born within Brethren

Even so. I now see why i wouldn’t want to change a thing. Because i can see how this has benefited myself, to help teach me, the way in which so many other human may also struggle themselves too, with these very same things as well

Therefore i now consider myself to be very lucky

Brethren can have all the same options available too?. The same options ALWAYS remain open for every human being on earth

Compassion and empathy has served me very well throughout my life. It allowed me to understand others better. In return, all in all generally speaking ,the same value were then shown to me reciprocally

I would urge Brethren to reconsider accepting this truly most wonderful gift of life. Brethren have a great chance STILL awaiting them, to be able to become a huge driving force for HELPERS of good, within our world today

The blood of all who have committed suicide, cries out in hope that the Brethren would CHOOSE  to do this now. So that the blood of our loved ones, who have passed away, then needed have been shed for nothing 

All these people who’s historic experience of suffering, is compiled and retained , see here below

https://web.archive.org/web/20131204204302/http://wikipeebia.com/forums/viewforum.php?f=14&sid=0da5bf29853dae314c62617a0e52aa6d

There is still an option open,to finally help make amends?

Bruce Hales Almighty Boo Boo, the Brethren review destroyer.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plymouth_Brethren_Christian_Church

Would only have need to humble himself so little. To simply accept that he is ALSO HUMAN, just like what everyone single one of us also are

Oh that it might begin to happen today

About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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