Guilt can be destructive . Cling to guilt for far to long, and perhaps you’ll then fail to ever move forward ?
Far better for us, to see it like its an act of learning. Not EVER like its a total failure for us to make mistakes. We cling to feeling guilty, if we would be stuck on pretending like as if, we might have ever have “needed to be perfect” in the first place anyway
Most of us grew up with the BULLSHIT “purity” thing. That’s the base of the reason behind why= Brethrenism
The crap about needing to remain separate from so called evil?. We’d grown up to expect that our shit wont stink, by being among brethren
What moron Brethrenism is
How wrong could that idea be ? .. Hmmmmm ? . One would have only need to look at all the lies and deceit and people being-paid off to keep certain stuff secret . The “clean-up crew’, secretly sent to cover u drink driving of what had killed brethren members
To know Brethrenism would in fact actually = extra far from perfect
When maybe that was EXACTLY what was always worse , about Egotistic-Brethrenism all along anyway. Was the “stupid purity” crap . The crap that became like a millstone to Brethrenism. The one that Brethren still drag along with them. A weight due to ego and being unwilling to “publicly” admit to their mistake . In humble manner
Yeah seems familiar
Ex eb need “no longer” carry-along that same mill stone, around any of their own neck, anymore.
By dumping Brethrenism, we’ve ALL already freed ourselves of that milestone-weight. Been humble enough,ourselves, to “freely” admit how Brethrenism was based on “egotistic purity” bullshit
We move on freely
Meanwhile, Brethren,within their own heart, all must carry that millstone weight, full knowing how they been putting on a bullshit charade. Cant even humble themselves to freely admit to wrongdoing
Not even after a whole generation, has already been, and gone
That must be a huge heavy weight to carry?. Little wonder then,we will hear some ex eb say, that they seen that the Brethrens eyes “seem to look” dead and kind of LIFELESS?
Little wonder too, that they cannot look ex eb in the eye for long?
I dont mind to look at then . Don’t mind it one bit
Its that huge lump of millstone “hanging around all their necks” that they still “lug” around like a bunch of clowns
Plenty of people know how they only started rapid relief. For PR
Us ex eb , all have something we be able to feel kind of proud of. We’ve already FREELY admitted how the “purity gig” was about Brethrenism ego (bullshit)
We’ve learn the lesson well and truly already.
Of what Brethren still fail to be able do (hee hee, the silly bunch of wally’s)
So they lug the millstone
They still cling to “purity” crap. Similar to like how a baby will clings-on for dear life, to its wee cuddly-rug . Feels soothing. Even when its become all sodden and soiled with mud and crap and been covered in germs
The only people they really able to totally fool, now, these days.
Sadly most wouldn’t be aware of that though (far to backwardly stupid, to know)