As most of us would know

Ex ebs up to their usual carry on ,again

Acting in usual deeply ingrained closed minded manner. Too many still reacting about “as enlightened” as compared to what a garden pea will also generally be like


Heather Dutra When others have complained to Admin about certain people, a discussion is had, then a warning is sent privately (if necessary) So if people are intimidated, perhaps they are not quite ready to handle this site?


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Ohh yeah Heather Dutra . For instance, “not quite ready” like what that real decent guy name John Weightman wasn’t ready to “put up with” anymore himself, either?

That real decent down to earth Christian fella. Salt of the earth real decent type. Inclusive person. Forgiving person. The type of person that is also sorely missed (well at least, he is really missed, big time, by ones of us who are “GROWN UP ENOUGH” to know about what LEVEL OF DECENCY was lost). The type of person that ex eb are ALL at loss, themselves too, from having been STUPID enough, to have “mistreated”  badly-enough, that he finally had had enough of the ongoing bullshit, and has left


There is no need, that all ex eb, or open eb, would EVER have NEED to ALL AGREE about Trump either

Perhaps certain people are not quite ready to “grow-up-enough” and learn how to handle that FACT either, as yet?

Poor things

With the way things are today. Bordering on WORLD war. Bordering on environmental disaster and so on, human should surely need to be able to discuss these matter


OR Else, the future of ALL of our children, and our children’s children, could be at stake?’

Similar to situation of what were able to develop to, within exclusive brethren rank and file, while James Talor Jr, and others as well, were in position of power. People had felt unable to discuss issues , even then as well too

Highly dangerous 

Need i really need to remind anyone about it?


Sarah James VJ Clarke Your tone is off throughout this post and is getting worse.
In your opening post you say ” some people will moan….” and in your latest comment says ” in case you didn’t get the memo….”.
That’s rude.

I don’t think this post is relevant to this group, see the group description but others obviously do think it’s relevant.

And there’s a world of difference between exclusive brethren and little off shoot groups / open brethren, as most of us who have lived an EB life know.


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Hold on hold on hold on. No need to be “quite so quick” to  be spitting the dummy

A J Clarke was merely understanding how topics can easily to easily offend ex Exclusive Brethren (perhaps even, very likely very much more so to ,than what will ever be even half so-likely to ever happen, among Ex Open Brethren. Simply because ex eb sometimes take longer to finally grow up from their childish exclusive brethren style mannerism, perhaps?. Chances are that hopefully Open Brethren might be slower to spit the dummy ,over “what” somebody had simply dared to attempt to discuss)

Naturally there will be, certain forum member, who’ll begin to FEEL NEED, to have to start-off their forum-post, by beginning by making this very type declaration (as a pre-warning. In hope that it might then serve to pre-warn the dip-shits who’ll always be strongly inclined to bleat and bitch about “who” should be “allowed” to say whatever)

They will do


Because its also what they have grown to expect to be MOST LIKELY to happen (IE:they grown to expect childishness)

Its a bit like, being surrounded by a bunch of children, soon enough you’ll some of us learn WHAT their personality is bound to be like,  and so by then we have also already grown to fully expect exactly what their next move, will be more likely to be like

Its about intuition

So hey. Settle down , and perhaps you might enjoy to concentrate more on “brushing up” on your skill on the use of intuition ?. Its actually a fairly “handy dandy”  skill for all people to try their best to adopt. Try it . I feel sure that perhaps you’ll find how it can serve us all well.

Who knows, perhaps next time, you’ll THEN not even require someone like me to need to HELP explain SIMPLE reason FOR why V J Clarke had “felt” this need to start off by saying, the kind of things like what V J had done


Ohhh and by the way, Sarah James,have you YOURSELF actually experienced existing within one of these offshoot group, such as like the one of what V J Clarke has done ?

If you haven’t done so

Then how do you, yourself, even know , for sure, what the experience might be like. How would you know, for sure, that within every single one of them “offshoot” groups, that there actually is a world of difference . Like you claim


As there is absolutely no SYSTEM of checks and balance, EVER in place, anywhere. Within our countries

How the hell would you have ability to know for sure then Sarah ?



vector silhouette of a girl with raised hands and broken chains

Oh dear oh dear oh dear. Cant we just begin to learn how to play a little nicer now please?.  Or are we STILL merely going through motion of pretending to ALL now be free  of the previous exclusive tyranny childish mentality . Of like what was full of “censoring” in regard to what people would “be allowed” to say or read or be allowed to choose to do



Are we actually living within new found freedom Sarah

Are we?

Or not?

Or is this freedom merely little more than being about ex ebs own style of putting on the ritz too

Think about this (admittedly there will be some folk will find it a hard exercise to master, IE the art “thinking” outside the square. But evidently, its also said, that God always STILL loves a person, who’ll at least care to still try?).

Imagine that (as if) you yourself were someone who’s still living existing as some present day exclusive brethren member. Imagine you were also perhaps “one of the underdog type” eb people too, someone who’ll perhaps have already been constantly picked-on and mistreated within the eb.

Been someone who’s ALREADY experienced constantly being bitched and bleated at, about “what” they may “dare” to say or do

Are you able to IMAGINE  “anything” ? . Sure hope so . Be a waste of time me even EXPLAINING  this stuff,TO YOU, if in fact you’d be about as imaginative as in comparison to what a stone is able to be like. As the art of “imagination” is actually also an important SKILL  to have, to be able to “use our imagination” specially so too when we would really honestly  hope to help present day cult members


Because, so as to even be able to be of any help to them eb folk. We would first of all need to begin to “imagine ourselves” , in a same-situation as if we were still all tasked to be existing-as one them, ourselves right now too.

In other words, FIRSTLY we would need to prove ,to them, that by being among ex eb non eb, this in fact something of whats MORE WORTHWHILE and as such is therefore VASTLY BETTER


Only then can we begin to DO BETTER, ourselves, so as  to help allow them to feel MORE COMFORTABLE , in any decision they might decide to attempt, to make their own escape

Specially note the word “FEEL ‘ SARAH

As the state of how a-cult member, is able to “feel” , ABOUT LEAVING, really does matter REAL big time

This is not like rocket science

Its not. Doesn’t even require anyone to have need to pass their university degree either. As its just simple down to earth common sense.

Common sense of like what STILL seem to be severely lacking among TOO MANY of you folk, on ex eb forum ?

Im not here to sugar coat it

The present day exclusive brethren member will be tasked with treading carefully, like as if constantly “walking around on broken glass”, ever fearful of the dumb-fuck issue, of  worrying about not wanting to dare to say or do ,anything of what might THEN be likely to upset someone


Or else. It could be like jumping out of the pot into the frying pan?

Ever fearful to not want to be found saying anything to upset

Some childishly intolerant moron

If you cant get over this. Then as ive said already. There need to be a new forum set up. With moderators running it who’ll also have an INTUITIVE  ability to imagine themselves as if they were “someone else”

Its important

Always been most important too

Its year 2019 .Due LONG OVERDUE time ex eb’s to finally get our shit together

Next time, that perhaps the eb come back at someone else through litigation ONCE AGAIN .

Then just don’t even bother to be seen bleating-on about, on your facebook forum, about reason for why people are not being “willing enough” to HELP donate to the cause

Hmmmm ?

Ex ebs need to “wake up”, begin to re-consider the ongoing situation , from this angle


Jesus would more likely want to see people who’d KNOW to use plenty of initiative

Similar to like what he had?







About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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