This scenario will only apply to some ex eb’s. Others wont have a clue what this kind of scenario might feel like. Chances are, that they also wont even be in the slightest aware either, that in fact there actually are some different scenario, to ex cult members experience, of trying to escape cults
I can sense that this is so, when ever i see ex ab’s that have left either together with other family member, or else others that have been able to regain close family relationships again, upon after leaving and then reforming original solid bonds once-again with their brother or sister ,father,mother who had all left separately
These people will be the ones busily suggesting that all cult members should just hurry up and escape. They act as if they haven’t a clue of all the “many different” scenario. Even though some of them have become highly educated .
And of course this is where intuition is required. So as to consider all scenario . Even the scenario completely different to that of your own scenario. Which naturally isn’t easy
But it need to be considered. Or else people wont begin to understand , why it is , that they still don’t see cult members “flooding out and away” from within cults
For now ,they think its got to be only something to do with the personal-problem with the cult member themselves
This misguided idea/view is way far to simplistic
Do they really figure, that answer are so simplistic, to explain reason for how-come there are STILL “thousand upon thousand” of people, who remain in cults, merely only due to some personal personality flaw, of cult people themselves?
Get off the grass
The fact that they see this as the answer. Is in affect also a large part of the ACTUAL answer, for very reason why things are STILL not changing fast enough