The Capacity to Give up on People


An important message.

Humans can waste their whole lives, with running after people, hoping against all odds, that one day, perhaps their family might suddenly finally learn about “the importance” of maintaining close relationships. The importance of  “working together” and networking as family (tribe)

Their comes a time when perhaps you’ll need to accept that it wont happen. You’ll need to accept that you cant make other people “to again want” things what they’ve become accustomed to seeing as unimportant

You may even be awake enough, yourself, so as to see sign of way in what this situation is even affecting aspect of their live in ways what could also be detrimental to their own lives as well as yours, or even worse the live of their own children as well

But even so. If those family of yours, are blind and remain complacently unaware , then at best you’ll only be able to totally wear yourself out should you continue to try and awaken them

Specially if you are the lack sheep. The family member, that the rest of the family may had always seen, as being “the lost one”

Even when all those peoples-families, are all about “as un-together” as can possible ever be

It still wont help to make one bit of difference?

Yeah nah

They still wont see it. None of them will. Those people dont bother to be observant. They’ll far rather to blunder on blindly. Struggling constantly with the element of family dysfunction. Still doing their very best to live life, and pretend, as if no such thing would have ever occurred , “among anyone of them”

Even although there may be evidence of whats blatantly obvious to highest degree

They still wont even be slightest aware of it

Yeah nah

They already spend far to much of their lives, with wasting their own energy with battling . With constantly swimming against the tide

They no time to become aware of “nitty gritty” of exactly whats been going down?

All already feeling worn-out and far to busy with their own lives already

No time to stop and re-consider what been constantly failing the whole time

No time for that

Yeah nah

Far rather to blunder on like a mindless flock of sheep

There comes a time, when to save yourself, you’ll need to forget about it, cease from running after the sheeple

Cease from bothering to try to talk sense to sheep brained idiots

Let em have it their way

Carry on with own life,learn to make do with what you do have

Make do with it. And just do the best than you can with it. Cease with wasting your life in hoping for , anything better to happen

You are only one person

You cannot ever change these kind of situation, by the power of one

Simply wont happen

You’ll wear yourself out if you’d bother to try

You’d be far better served, if you were to try and help “awaken” other non family member . Spend more of your time taken action in helping to awaken the mind of other-citizen within society (who are non-family)

  1. Trying to get those people to awaken and finally see how society is been unwittingly allowing room for “family dysfunction” to grow and become deeply established
  2. Spend your time working of ways to start making government accept responsibility for cost of brain injuries caused

Once the harm starts costing the government

Which will also need to be paid for as well, through a-rise in citizen taxes

This will then be holding the citizen accountable for they had unwitting originally allowed to be happening

This is the only way open, to actually even enforce change

Change will happen. As soon as the government ,and the citizen, will become aware of how the situation of what they’ve allowed, is in fact now costing themselves , mega loads of money

Through higher taxes

What will be needed, so as to help cater for brain injuries being caused by cult abuse

Change will begin to happen

As soon as citizen become aware that it is themselves who’ll also need to share the weight of the cost (IE: pay for costs through tax rise)of the harm being allowed to be done

Citizen wont be happy about needing to help pay extra taxes for the cost of harm being caused ,by cults

No they wont happy to hear this news

You watch how quick the citizen will step up, and begin to demand for changes to happen

You see how quick,citzen will publicly begin to demand that changes should happen

You mark my word, it wont take long to happen

It wont


Because, by then, cult abuses , when then also be affecting their own lives, by then as well too 

Citizen generally don’t give a damn

Until such time as situation would also have begun to have an affect on themselves as well

People are selfish in this way?

Ex cult members, would be best served to spend their energy, with demanding that governments would begin to accept full responsibility

For all costs

Of harm of what government-policy are been allowing to occur

Government make policy

Then government are ULTIMATELY responsible (even when citizen taxes, pay the cost)

Government should be held responsible , for cost of their policy (even when it might involve the religious policy)

At present, it is only unlucky member of cults, whom are being forced to bare the full cost of the outcome of government policy in regard to religion

Presently, government are getting away with ,being able to refuse responsibility for cost of brain injuries (C-PTSD)

This fact explain why government still remainunconcerned




About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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