Jordan Peterson On Loneliness and The Importance of Human Connections

Family connections are immensely important. Family are supposed to help guide us. Family connection were supposed to help nullify the feeling of loneliness among youth, so that youth might then not have need to bother to rush into wrong relationships with partners of what are destined to not last

Sadly religion has become a spanner in the works . With all to often serving to destroy any possibility for good strong easy-flowing family connection to be able to remain strong.


Because of reason how the religious parent may try to act so as to impose their own religious belief, onto lives of their children

Religious people will try and say that religion “is the actual requirement” so as to create strong family bonds. However, this idea would seem to overlook the fact the many times strong family connection have been created without need for any form religion being involved . For instance, we could note that The Pirahã  peoples “family connections” do not suffer due to their lack of religion

Do they (if anything their “connections” are strengthen due to lack of religion)

This is the truth of the matter

Besides, lets say some Christian bigot were to try to suggest that Christian belief, is whats required, so as to help nurture strength of family connection. This idea is obviously wrong. The first nations people family connections were all already far stronger, far more closely connected, before Christianity arrived in the land by piggy backing its way into the people lives alongside with the acts of colonization. Causing family dysfunction that still now continues on strong, even unto this very day (because of reasons how “family connection” ,are ALWAYS hard to heal,once they have been systematically broken and messed-with)

And in fact many times over it has been Christianity what has served to decimate original tribal family connections. Causing all kind of extra family dysfunction to begin to occur in the process  (alcoholism, poverty through systematic loss of tribal land,and so on)

Cults have been wreaking havoc in causing breakdown of family connection too. And then to make matters worse, our government have acted utterly irresponsible by their own act of rewarding these cult by way of issuing them with charity status

Our government should be held ultimately responsible. As a big part of their own job, as government, is to be watching out after the citizen health and safety ?

Many time, our government have become so uncaring, and so far removed from responsibility of taking care of their own job in professional righteous moral manner, that they’ll often even try to refuse to cover the citizen (through accident compensation laws and so on) for any ongoing losses caused unto citizen via brain injuries caused by trauma experienced through cult harm

The situation is totally immoral . Governments should need to be the ones to be held to account. If government chose to reward religious groups of what cause citizen brain injury. Then government had better also be prepared to cover the outcome ?

They should be morally obligated

One brother of mine , many years ago during the rein of one Brethren leader (have a feeling it might have been a Hales) was cast out alone. Shunted out of Brethren fellowship and were “shut up” and put into separation. His wife and all their children were removed from within their home. My brother was left alone to fend for himself. He was required to still try and run is building business, plus to cook his own food and to take of all house keeping. During this time of separation of what went on for months on end, he wasn’t allowed to have any social contact with his wife,children or brethren member. Neither was he supposed to have social contact with any non brethren either. About the only time he’d have social contact with anyone, would only be during work time.

During this time, (from what i can remember being told), evidently the brethren leader of that time had said within meeting (what was then also recorded within Brethren ministry books as well, afterwards too) something to affect that it would be an ok-Brethren-practice, for my brothers wife to be trying to pressure my brother into quicker submission, by threatening that value of their building business might need to be divided up “should it” end up that my brother might need to be withdrawn from (being withdrawn from completely, is total excommunication, and is considered as being  the next step further past the previous act of being separated through being  shut up. Can also many times tend to become permanent .

So Brethren were willing to adopt my brother wife,to use HER as a WEAPONagainst my brother”, so as to pressure and threaten him of financial ruin, by breaking up their marriage through excommunication (as far as i’m aware, EVIDENCE of this idea, being put forward by the Brethren leader, within a Brethren meeting, is now recorded within books of Brethren ministry. So could still easily be found, and be pointed out)

Threatening that business interests “might have need to remain divided”, permanently, unless my brother would hurry up and become more submissive to Brethren hierarchy cult control (or something to similar affect)

That’s how low Brethren are willing to lower themselves to?

They’ll use a mans own Wife and children, (against the husband,)as tool WEAPON to threaten pain and suffering (then go so far as to even skite and boast about it within Brethten meetings. As if they must feel like it should be “looked upon”, as being quite normal MORAL practice)

They are morally sick human being the Brethren are?

Disgustingly so

This brother of mine, having been left to live exist completely alone for months and months on end. While still trying to run his business so as to still provide for his wife and children. While being subjected to threats and pressure from Brethren priests and who ever else. Obviously soon enough became extremely sad and lost. He then even began to lose so much weight, that in given time there were need for his own doctor to have need go see and approach the Brethren himself, so as to warn the Brethren that unless the Brethren would be willing to alter the situation quickly

Then my brother was very soon about to die through suffering extreme sadness for so long, and due to affect of starvation through him not eating enough

It had required THE WORLDLY DOCTOR to take action into his own hands himself (before Brethren would finally then agree to change the way they what they had been doing things?)

Thats how “morally backward” the Brethren bogans are

Unless the doctor had of purposely gone to see the Brethren to ask them to change their way

Brethren are so callous. So void of conscience. So low in compassion and empathy

High chance that they wouldn’t have bothered to care. Wouldn’t have changed their way.

And my brother would have died ,there all alone, in their family home. Due to Brethren’s highly detrimental ways of dividing-up family connection

Brethren have caused family dysfunction

During this time of family separation, between my brother and his wife and children. Who were removed from their family home. So as to put my brother into Brethren-church punishment. Which had lasted for mots and months on end. For so long in fact, that the brothers doctor had to intervene himself, so as to stop “death via starvation” from happening

During this long period apart my brothers “wife and children” had all also basically already begun to have grown-apart as well too

Which is entirely understandable ? (IE: its not considered as anything abnormal,”phenomena”, to have tendencies to happen)

Its not

Whats more, this situation has now ended up as a situation of what would never ever heal (still to this day, these relationship have not been able to heal)

Sadly so

Anyways, fast forward many years, and today my brother is now become an ex eb too (like myself). Since becoming an ex eb, he has now also finally been diagnosed as actually being someone who’s on the Asperger spectrum (which makes perfect sense, to me, when i now think back and reconsider some memory of what had occurred back as far as times way within my own childhood)

Brethren are utterly callous human

Whats worse is this . They are callous human who also COMPLETELY lack a conscience

They completely lack any form of real conscience

All the while they proceed with the facade of “RAPID RELIEF ” for farmers who’ll happily swallow their PR (public relation) stunt hook line and sinker

Without even thinking twice about it

This bullshit has come at a  huge cost to other people . People like my brother (for one instance)?

Farmers wont even know about that ?

Will they

Besides, do they even give a damn to “want to know” anyway? (so long as their own interest are taken care of)= indifference 101

Do other ex eb, who now may get to see their own eb families themselves ,once again…. Give a damn themselves about it either?= indifference 101

Indifference is huge

Indifference is pandemic proportion many times still today

Human (many of them pretending to be followers of Jesus)  SECRETLY really honestly couldn’t give a damn about what still happens with anyone else’s lives

They couldn’t give a stuff ?

Yeah nah

So long as their own lives are “being carefully catered” for

Then why bother to care about anything else ?

Meanwhile, many of them will still go to church on Sunday. Still rant on about “morality” and about “love of God” and so on blah bah rada rada rada

Still feel “real shit hot” about themselves too

Because of being to still claim to be someone who’s still “a believer” (swoon)

Those people. They await the return of Jesus. Still fully expect that they’ll be someone to be listed within the “good book”

Unbeknownst to them

Even although they figure that they might have escaped the cult (Brethren) , but yet meanwhile they still SUCCUMBED  to Brethren NEW FOUND way of LOVE BOMBING

Not that they’ll be one bit aware of it happening

Too thick?

Yeah nah … far to stupid

Bunch of dumb fucks played right into the hand of the Brethren game-play

all over again?

Yep …same  old shit … slightly different style …. different time frame

Same outcome

Indifference 101

Bruce review wrecker Hales must be clapping his hands together in glee

Not only do Brethren congregation remain gullible fools

Now ex eb happily proving themselves to be really no better either

All still happily remain like putty…. like a bunch of complete YO YO, in the hands of cunning Brethren hierarchy

But hey

Its a long standing Christian tradition


Very few Christian  really ever give a fuck about the lives existence of “other people” who remain caught up in destruction and harm caused by cults?

They don’t ?

Those Christian folk, mostly they all feel indifferent as to that

Not their any of own problem is it?

How else would cult harm have ever been able to find fertile ground to flourish?

Without the  “element Christian indifference” of what as always allowed it to happen

Even Jordan Peterson is now also trying to point out how important the family connection really are

Trouble is

Human are become indifferent

Christianity is long been acting as a force for indifference within our societies

Become to pandemic proportion within our whole societies

Specially so to, when obviously its not wrong to think how a little leaven can help to leaven the whole lump (Galatians 5:9 )

1.If Christian have traditionally felt indifferent in regard to detrimental affect of family division

2. If a little leaven would leaven the whole lump. Then little surprise too then, how now our whole secular society would have grown to also find it acceptable practice, as well


About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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