Are Brethren Narcissists Ever Truthfully Remorseful

I have a theory that narcissism,by now runs rampant, through the Brethren

The more i do research into narcissism. The more it is that i become convinced .Take some time to watch though the following video

How much chance is there, that the Brethren would feel sense of remorse about any ex eb’s hurt?

What would go through the Brethren’s mind when they see ex eb’s expressing their hurt?

Whats the chance that “the exclusive brethren” would generally feel a sense of joy, to be able to see ex members, expressing their unhappiness

What about that?

Perhaps they wont have the same emotion or empathy, as like what normal people, might usually have


Does anyone remember that expressionless cold stone hearted look, on their Exclusive Brethren family members face, that time when you were expressing your feeling of sadness

Can any ex eb, remember that ?

Your hurt is like “delicious narcissistic supply” , to those Brethren

Isn’t it?

I bet those Brethren would know, of times that even their leader, within Brethren meetings, will pretty much been “feeling openly joyful” , in their meetings, to be “able to report” about how so and so “ex member” lives have been falling apart.

Bruce will be there in that Brethren meeting quietly “crowing about” the joy of seeing, or hearing about the way in what some “ex eb members” lives have been tough-going

Wont he?

Bruce will be “quietly” feeling gleeful ,at the thought of it happening

Hasn’t that happen ? (any exclusive brethren who’s reading this, will quietly know, that i’m only being completely straight up about the truth of the matter here)

Isn’t that the truth?

I’m only trying to help warn you Brethren people

The narcissistic will usually have these “small wee tiny little ego” of what require to be “stroked” and to be built up

See here …. Quote:

Craig Stewart


A very senior EB brother, close to Bruce D. Hales said to me ref. BDH “it’s almost idolatry”. Almost …… ?

One HEB / PBCC protocol, that came into force early in BDH’s reign, controls the congregation’s personal behaviour for all special meetings attended by Bruce. I found it disturbing and silly. Here are the details;

All the brethren must be seated before Bruce enters.

The ‘church’ is abuzz with conversation …….

A brother appears in the door at which the ‘Great Man’ will enter and gives an indication … total silence!

(No babies at special meetings.)

The ‘great Man’ appears in the doorway ! …. everyone stands. The ‘great Man’ walks down the isle and lowers into his special seat. Everyone else then sits. The service commences.

At the close of the service there is complete silence, except for any conversation initiated by the ‘great Man’.

A male usher stands blocking each exit door …… The ‘great Man’ assumes the erect position …… Everyone else silently stands ……

No one speaks unless spoken to by the ‘great Man’.

No one except a special few (principally his son’s and son-in-law) are allowed to approach him unbidden.

The aisle which he uses to enter and leave has selected persons pre-positioned in the aisle seats to prevent any member of the congregation reaching out to the ‘great Man’ for help. You must only speak if spoken too.

When he’s ready the ‘great Man’ heads up the isle and goes into his special chamber (with ensuite).

The ushers unblock the exits, the silence is shattered by many voices, many old and young rush to the toilets.

Is this representing The Lord Jesus Christ ?




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Does all of the above sound very much like its a

“Ego building exercise 101”

Or what?

Wake up Brethren

Brucie review wrecker Hales, doesnt like the idea of letting “any other person” to become the center of attention

Does he?

Isn’t that a reasonable explanation, for reason why Bruce would have felt need, to step in, and ruin the state of the Brethren review, for others involved

He was beginning to become to fearful that perhaps “other people” might begin to corner a piece of “the-attention”

And Bruce would demand to remain as the center of attention

Or what?

Wake up Brethren

Bruce felt less happy, to see how family member were reconnecting together within the time of the review. And were happy, and laughing together “at their own jokes”, and were even having loads of fun and doing fun things together, again

They only validate you, within times of love bombing

For instance,like in times when Bruce was busily love bombing loads ex eb’s, for only  a short period of time within the review, so as to “take the heat off of himself” and his cult,long term

It was merely “a purposely designed strategy”

And Bruce had still always made very sure, that it would be himself who’d remain center of attention too


You certainly wouldn’t have ever seen Bruce Hales bother to stop to shed a tear himself “for anyone else” who’d been hurt very badly, by the going’s on, within the review

Would you?

Wake up Brethren


Once Bruce Hales had us ex eb’s secured within his trap,within the review, then not long after, the love bombing had ceased, almost as quickly as it had started


Because, by then, Bruce could only see us ex eb’s , as if we were merely to be possessed or discarded, only as if like we are no more that being like “an object”  in life

Something that can be so easily forgotten about (like no more than an old cell phone,  or old model car, or jet plane, or push bike or toy that now no longer holds the same value as before)

Narcissist much Bruce ?

“The idealization love bombing phase ended abruptly within the review”

Isn’t that completely correct Bruce Hales ?

“And painfully too for many”

Correct Bruce Hales ?

Before you know it, you’ll be the target of psychological abuse too


The Australian man who leads the Exclusive Brethren has said a mentally tormented young member of his flock would be better to “get a shot of poison” and “finish yourself off” than talk to members of his own family.

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Cannot ever allow that anyone else might have become the center of attention, aye

Correct Bruce Hales ?

Narcissist 101  Brethren style

Brethren narcissist certainly showed me a way to learn to live without them. Yeah nah…that’s for real . Last place i’d ever wish to be. I would to need to return to become captive among the Brethren narcissistic cult

I feel extremely sorry for them

The poor things

Extremely poor of heart. Those poor Brethren people?. Even if they’d be wealthy money-wise

Money certainly isn’t everything

Yeah that’s for real

They don’t even seem to have a slight conscience

Not even “a slight” conscience?

No wonder then, that they’d also never be seen to show any true remorse either


You wont see it. Their fragile ego’s wont ever allow it to happen

Will it?

“Far to poor of heart”

The poor things

They’d all sit there in church every Sunday making a complete mockery of matters

Remaining far to “up themselves” to even care to “think of lowering themselves, a little, so as to at least learn to be able to agree to eat with others”…. again

Again … after having needed to turn so many human lives into misery


Meanwhile they wouldn’t even shed a tear for member of their own family, who their cult had helped to destroy

Would they?

Or even worse

Had perhaps even caused to commit suicide

Meanwhile Brethren still happily act as if their shit never stinks

Bunch of wankers

Will will their youth wise up… show some real-balls for once in their lives… and begin to at least help to spill the beans


About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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