Another persons feelings, are not necessarily wrong?
There seems to be this constant pressure to try and turn all human’s into “clone like beings”
I suspect that perhaps a part of the reason for why it happen like this, is that it stems from the “purity gospel”
Its the flip side of human way of trying to obtain their sense of “purity”
A idea which is pointless too
Being that ,the idea of human ability of ever achieving “purity” , then often naturally creates “bigotry” as the naturally driven flip-side of this action
Therefore how its a self defeating exercise
You are to “not be yourself” . You’d be supposed, to be not able to ever even be allowed to feel to be “at one” with your own inner feeling
You are not welcome to feel you’d “be yourself ”
They have you stuck on this treadmill of life, like a rat running around and around and around, forever trying to obtain this sense of “purity” but yet never ever quite getting there
Be stuck dealing with “feelings of guilt” too, whenever you’d fail
Which is also ALWAYS bound to happen
Well,because nobodies ever perfect
So therefore, the human are constantly trying to pretend to be something of what they are “inwardly” not. They are forever trying to put on the charade.
Busily putting on the ritz
Ex ebs, can sometimes act as if they might have never vacated the cult .
Its like as if they’d still remain cult-bound
Its as if they’d still strive to attain some sense of “human purity”.Perfection of conformity within their ex eb clan
There has been a conversation going on recently about being bitter
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Bradley McCallum Sarah, I’m not sure you can be so certain in your statements. I don’t know they’re true, frankly. I wouldn’t have taken the approach of Samuel but then I don’t take the approach or agree with the actions of a great many exEBs who are protesting / pushing back in their own ways. We need to try to understand each other better and if necessary disagree without condemnation.Find support or report comment
Whats so wrong with a certain persons way of feeling bitter
Who of us should be the judge ?
Is every-bodies life ever even exactly the same
I’d expect that there’d be a number of Jews perhaps might still feel bitter about the holocaust too
Would that necessarily be wrong of them to feel this way
How is it ok for me to judge them for their bitterness. When truth is, i wouldn’t ever stand a chance to have walked a mile or two in their shoes, ever myself
Why would it be my right to judge any Jew for still feeling bitter
What about the first nation people. A number of those people are quite likely still feeling bitter too. How does that prove that those people’s “bitter feelings” would be completely wrong (or unjust).
Who should be the one to judge?
Is an American Indian, of who’s family may all now find themselves cooped up on a small reservation, while FEELING ENSLAVED, who are also still struggling to overcome immense amount of family dysfunction much of which would also likely to stem from affect of C-PTSD caused unto their own-families due to traumatic experiences forced upon them all through evasion of colonialism
How is it wrong ?
How is it so-wrong if they’d ever still feel bitter
Why is it “so wrong” of them to be having these “feelings”. And who among us should have the right to become the ones to judge them
Who among us should become the judge of their reasons ?
These people who think their shit never stinks. The ones who think they are smarter and more intelligent and professional than others.Or whatever
Half the time they’d be so full of themselves
Good chance that they’d also “feel bitter” a little bit too, themselves sometimes as well, just like so many of us others also will do as well
Except, they’ll be trying to pretend as if they don’t ever do so
What give these people the right to think that they should be able to be the one who’d be calling the shots for everyone of us who’s involved
So what if Bruce review wrecker Hales is saying bad shit about “the bitterness” among ex eb
Who need to care (so much) about whatever he thinks
Who gives a fuck about what Bruce says or thinks
What authority is he anyway?
He’s little more than a wealthy cunning Cult-scam artist
Who the hell does Bruce Hales think he is, to judge people. for the way they’d feel
What would give Bruce the right to be judge and jury of what people should be “allowed to feel” about matters?
A better question might be
Why wouldn’t there be a certain amount bitterness still remaining among ex Brethren
That’s a far better question
Its only human, for human “to feel” things
Its something to be expected to more likely occur too (IE: cause an affect)
We might have reason to feel more surprised, if in fact we’d noticed that it didn’t ever happen
If in fact we’d noticed that there were absolutely no feelings of bitterness
That would then be way far more surprising
That would then be something what be “surprising” to see
What we do observe, is type of phenomena whats quite natural to occur.
Its phenomena of whats expected to occur
Anyone feeling better, need not need to feel abnormal … or guilty …. or wrong
Don’t allow the “warped purity gospel” to turn you into yet-another guilt-ridden being . Losing sleep due to feeling like you’re somebody who’s abnormal
The kind of purity-minded-rubbish that our messed-up society would remain intent on pushing on to us all
There are very valid reason for this feeling of bitterness of what certain ex members are feeling. And we, ex eb’s, can certainly provide plenty enough evidence, as proof, of the valid reasons for why it’s still happening too
That’s for real
Brethren can be reassured that we ex eb’s are most certainly intending on stepping up our action in continually exposing the Brethren for the harm they still cause
The feeling of bitterness,among ex eb’s, is quite natural
To be expected even
Its a sign that ex eb’s would still remain quite-human.
That’s what its a sign of
There is nothing wrong,with people, for feeling aggrieved and a sense of bitterness and feeling resentment upon them having been unfairly treated
Is there ?
Its just a normal natural human reaction
Bruce review wrecker Hales, whats so wrong with human feeling resentment upon having been unfairly treated
Do you care to comment here on my blog ?
Come share you’d warped wisdom of why you’d feel bitterness is unwarranted
How about it Brucie
How about sharing your warped reason, for denying that there’d be certain ex eb should still have good reason to be feeling bitter
Do you have enough guts to come here and “man-up enough” to care to comment here?
Or are you still feeling “far to afraid” to dare to do so Bruce
Because you’d know how i’ll shoot you down,with use words , and make you look to be horridly unthoughtful
“Words are “more mighty” than what the sword will ever be”
Aren’t they Bruce?
You fear the words of warfare being used by ex brethren
Don’t you Bruce?
You haven’t got a shit show in hell, of being able to come and comment ,here, in public
You don’t have a shit show in hell
Do you Bruce
Because you know, that us ex eb’s , do still happen to have the truth of the matter , on our side
we can use words, what can also be backed-up by evidence, to help expose the truth
We can use “truth” within the “written word” to shoot you down
To very quickly expose you as being a callous thoughtless person that we all know that you are
We can achieve this with relative ease
Right Bruce ?
Because, even the rich and powerful, are at loss, when coming up against the power of the written word of what can also be backed-up by evidence
See the thing is Bruce, your idea “that bitterness” is always wrong, for ex eb’s to feel
Only “stands up” within the inner confine of your cult
That’s correct Bruce?
And cult opinion, are usually being twisted by Cult-dictate
Public held views are not under any control of rule of the cult-dictate, the same way
Are they Bruce?
Non cult member, ie: the citizen, are free to use their own method of reasoning
Once we begin bringing this conversation,out into public sphere
That’s when the real truth of the matter can then begin to be discussed .
Isn’t it so Bruce
The truth of what im saying,here on my blog, can be substantiated by simply watching the way in which you fail to ever be able to bring any of your cult-dictate argument, out here into the public sphere
“You cannot afford to dare to do that”
Can you Bruce
Simply cannot afford to ever dare to do so
We all know, that you cannot afford to, because of how you are also well aware, of how your callous views would be quickly shot down in flames
They’d be openly exposed as being foolish
And most of all, as being, horridly callous
Openly exposing you for being the callous uncouth person of like what we ex eb’s all know that you are
“You callous view wont stand up to the test of public scrutiny”
Will they Bruce ?
Yes there are ex eb’s who feel bitter
And its rightfully so that they’d be still feeling bitter too
You know this is the truth
Don’t you Bruce
You are aware of the valid reasons they’d have for “still feeling bitter”
You are fully aware, that if the public were to be made fully aware of the uncouth ways of the Brethren, of whats still going on secretly
You Brethren would have then been able to be publicly exposed to be uncouth people (who they are)
This is also reason to explain why you’d still have need to try and silence ex member
You’d claim to not fear public scrutiny
You’d still continue to try and silence ex eb’s use of public media
Why do this?
For what reason
Why do it (if your claim are based on truth)
It doesn’t make sense (unless we consider that you’d be attempting to hide the info about what been truthfully happening)
Why the need to do it, if in fact your claim are truthful
We all know the real reason why
Don’t we Bruce