Embrace All Your Feelings

Another persons feelings, are not necessarily wrong?

There seems to be this constant pressure to try and turn all human’s into “clone like beings”

I suspect that perhaps a part of the reason for why it happen like this, is that it stems from the “purity gospel”

Its the flip side of human way of trying to obtain their sense of “purity”

A idea which is pointless too

Being that ,the idea of human ability of ever achieving “purity” , then often naturally creates “bigotry” as the naturally driven flip-side of this action

Therefore how its a self defeating exercise


You are to “not be yourself” . You’d be supposed, to be not able to ever even be allowed to feel to be “at one” with your own inner feeling

In short

You are not welcome to feel you’d “be yourself ”

They have you stuck on this treadmill of life, like a rat running around and around and around, forever trying to obtain this sense of “purity” but yet never ever quite getting there

And then

Be stuck dealing with “feelings of guilt” too, whenever you’d fail

Which is also ALWAYS bound to happen


Well,because nobodies ever perfect

So therefore, the human are constantly trying to pretend to be something of what they are “inwardly” not. They are forever trying to put on the charade.

Busily putting on the ritz


Ex ebs, can sometimes act as if they might have never vacated the cult .

Its true?

Its like as if they’d still remain cult-bound

Its as if they’d still strive to attain some sense of “human purity”.Perfection of conformity within their ex eb clan

Isn’t it?

There has been a conversation going on recently about being bitter


  • Sarah Rowlands Samuel Forrest, can I please ask you to think about what you share/how you conduct yourself on social media with regard to the PBCC.

    It seems you are hell bent on sharing what you can when you can almost for the sake of it, without giving it any serioSee more

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    • Bradley McCallum Sarah, I’m not sure you can be so certain in your statements. I don’t know they’re true, frankly. I wouldn’t have taken the approach of Samuel but then I don’t take the approach or agree with the actions of a great many exEBs who are protesting / pushing back in their own ways. We need to try to understand each other better and if necessary disagree without condemnation.
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    • Sarah Rowlands Bradley, it was a polite request 🙂

      I am merely stating fact as I always have done and will continue to do so.

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    • Samuel Forrest Sarah Rowlands Fact? You expressed several opinions
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    • Sarah Rowlands Samuel, “you are bitter just like that Forrest guy” was a statement made to me.
      Fact, not opinion.
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    • Jilly Moxham For the people who dont know Samuel. He is a very generous caring person who has more than his share of challenges. Give him a break for pity sake – you dont know half of it!
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Whats so wrong with a certain persons way of feeling bitter

Who of us should be the judge ?

Is every-bodies life ever even exactly the same

I’d expect that there’d be a number of Jews perhaps might still feel bitter about the holocaust too

Would that necessarily be wrong of them to feel this way

Would it?

How is it ok for me to judge them for their bitterness. When truth is, i wouldn’t ever stand a chance to have walked a mile or two in their shoes, ever myself

Why would it be my right to judge any Jew for still feeling bitter


What about the first nation people. A number of those people are quite likely still feeling bitter too. How does that prove that those people’s “bitter feelings” would be completely wrong (or unjust).


Who should be the one to judge?

Is an American Indian, of who’s family may all now find themselves cooped up on a small reservation, while FEELING ENSLAVED, who are also still struggling to overcome immense amount of family dysfunction much of which would also likely to stem from affect of C-PTSD caused unto their own-families due to traumatic experiences forced upon them all through evasion of colonialism

How is it wrong ?

How is it so-wrong if they’d ever still feel bitter


Why is it “so wrong” of them to be having these “feelings”. And who among us should have the right to become the ones to judge them

Who among us should become the judge of their reasons ?

These people who think their shit never stinks. The ones who think they are smarter and more intelligent and professional than others.Or whatever

Half the time they’d be so full of themselves

Would they?

Good chance that they’d also “feel bitter” a little bit too, themselves sometimes as well, just like so many of us others also will do as well

Except, they’ll be trying to pretend as if they don’t ever do so

What give these people the right to think that they should be able to be the one who’d be calling the shots for everyone of us who’s involved

So what if Bruce review wrecker Hales is saying bad shit about “the bitterness” among ex eb

So what?

Who need to care (so much) about whatever he thinks

Who gives a fuck about what Bruce says or thinks

What authority is he anyway?

He’s little  more than a wealthy cunning Cult-scam artist

Who the hell does Bruce Hales think he is, to judge people. for the way they’d feel

What would give Bruce the right to be judge and jury of what people should be “allowed to feel” about matters?

A better question might be

Why wouldn’t there be a certain amount  bitterness still remaining among ex Brethren

That’s a far better question

Why not?

Its only human, for human “to feel” things

Its something to be expected to more likely occur too (IE: cause an affect)

Isn’t it?

We might have reason to feel more surprised, if in fact we’d noticed that it didn’t ever happen

If in fact we’d noticed that there were absolutely no feelings of bitterness

That would then be way far more surprising

Wouldn’t it?

That would then be something what be “surprising” to see

What we do observe, is type of phenomena whats quite natural to occur.

Its phenomena of whats expected to occur

Anyone feeling better, need not need to feel abnormal … or guilty …. or wrong

Don’t allow the “warped purity gospel” to turn you into yet-another guilt-ridden being . Losing sleep due to feeling like you’re somebody who’s abnormal

That’s rubbish

The kind of purity-minded-rubbish that our messed-up society would remain intent on pushing on to us all


There are very valid reason for this feeling of bitterness of what certain ex members are feeling. And we, ex eb’s, can certainly provide plenty enough evidence, as proof, of the valid reasons for why it’s still happening too

That’s for real

Brethren can be reassured that we ex eb’s are most certainly intending on stepping up our action in continually exposing the Brethren for the harm they still cause

The feeling of bitterness,among ex eb’s, is quite natural 

To be expected even

Its a sign that ex eb’s would still remain quite-human.

That’s what its a sign of

There is nothing wrong,with people, for feeling aggrieved and a sense of bitterness and feeling resentment upon them having been unfairly treated

Is there ?

Its just a normal natural human reaction

Bruce review wrecker Hales, whats so wrong with human feeling resentment upon having been unfairly treated

Do you care to comment here on my blog ?

Come share you’d warped wisdom of why you’d feel bitterness is unwarranted

How about it Brucie

How about sharing your warped reason, for denying that there’d be certain ex eb should still have good reason to be feeling bitter

Do you have enough guts to come here and “man-up enough” to care to comment here?

Or are you still feeling “far to afraid” to dare to do so Bruce

Because you’d know how i’ll shoot you down,with use words , and make you look to be horridly unthoughtful

“Words are “more mighty” than what the sword will ever be”

Aren’t they Bruce?

You fear the words of warfare being used by ex brethren

Don’t you Bruce?

You haven’t got a shit show in hell, of being able to come and comment ,here, in public

You don’t have a shit show in hell

Do you Bruce

Why not?

Because you know, that us ex eb’s , do still happen to have the truth of the matter , on our side

we can use words, what can also be backed-up by evidence, to help expose the truth


We can use “truth” within the “written word” to shoot you down

Correct Bruce?

To very quickly expose you as being a callous thoughtless person that we all know that you are

We can achieve this with relative ease

Right Bruce ?

Because, even the rich and powerful, are at loss, when coming up against the power of the written word of what can also be backed-up by evidence


See the thing is Bruce, your idea “that bitterness” is always wrong, for ex eb’s to feel

Only “stands up” within the inner confine of your cult

That’s correct Bruce?

And cult opinion, are usually being twisted by Cult-dictate

Where as

Public held views are not under any control of rule of the cult-dictate, the same way

Are they Bruce?

Non cult member, ie: the citizen, are free to use their own method of reasoning

Once we begin bringing this conversation,out into public sphere

That’s when the real truth of the matter can then begin to be discussed .

Isn’t it so Bruce

The truth of what im saying,here on my blog, can be substantiated by simply watching the way in which you fail to ever be able to bring any of your cult-dictate argument, out here into the public sphere

“You cannot afford to dare to do that”

Can you Bruce

Simply cannot afford to ever dare to do so

Why not?

We all know, that you cannot afford to, because of how you are also well aware, of how your callous views would be quickly shot down in flames

They’d be openly exposed as being foolish

And most of all, as being, horridly callous

Openly exposing you for being the callous uncouth person of like what we ex eb’s all know that you are

Right Bruce?

“You callous view wont stand up to the test of public scrutiny”

Will they Bruce ?

Yes there are ex eb’s who feel bitter

And its rightfully so that they’d be still feeling bitter too

You know this is the truth

Don’t you Bruce

You are aware of the valid reasons they’d have for “still feeling bitter”

Right Bruce?

You are fully aware, that if the public were to be made fully aware of the uncouth ways of the Brethren, of whats still going on secretly

You Brethren would have then been able to be publicly exposed to be uncouth people (who they are)

This is also reason to explain why you’d still have need to try and silence ex member

You’d claim to not fear public scrutiny

And yet

You’d still continue to try and silence ex eb’s use of public media

Why do this?

For what reason

Why do it (if your claim are based on truth)


It doesn’t make sense (unless we consider that you’d be attempting to hide the info about what been truthfully happening)

Why the need to do it, if in fact your claim are truthful 


We all know the real reason why

Don’t we Bruce




About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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