17 Signs You Have Low Emotional Intelligence

There is little doubt that human have low EQ

1.On one side you’ll have the people who’d demand that human with “untidy” emotion, would learn to control their emotion and suppress all their untidy emotion.

2.On the other side you’ll have people with emotion, of what are obviously out of control, for valid reason too, who’ll be expressing their rather untidy emotion, publicly

Seem to me, that neither of these two group, will be the ones who can claim to have high EQ

But instead, its become more like a war of words

And then, even when the people with the “untidy emotion”, through being guilt-ed into doing so, may decide to simply just bury their feeling of emotion, with end-result being that some perhaps may then even choose to revert to suicide, instead (as an alternative method of their emotional frustration release)https://web.archive.org/web/20131204204302/http://wikipeebia.com/forums/viewforum.php?f=14&sid=0da5bf29853dae314c62617a0e52aa6d

The self acclaimed high EQ persons“, may then all gather online so as to be able to all publicly express their own feelings of emotion ,by declaring themselves to “all feel so real sorry” and so on, blah blah blah rada rada, for the victims involved who’d been the ones to commit suicide (not that it ever help the victim,then at all anymore though. Even although it may still serve to help make the apologizee to still feel “wonderfully-superior”  (IE:about themselves)for their own acts of publicly expressing their claim of feeling of sorrow, and so on

Around and around and around the vicious circle continually flows in perpetuation

With well meaning folks all trying to get “one-up” in their superiority claim to be the “ones” who’d have the-higher EQ’s

At the end of the day, the real honest high EQ are still real few and far between 

“Still be about as scarce as rocking horse shit”

Sadly so

Explosion in population numbers suffering from bad mental health. An rise in numbers attempting suicide, would seem to attest to the possibility that perhaps high EQ might be fairly few and far between?

At the end of the day,perhaps human might be better off to learn to accept that

1. there are in fact many people with low EQ

2. There is also some valid reason for why

3 Suppressing the evidence doesn’t serve to help fix anything


Human seem to see its as being about maintaining their sense of pride. To many, it would seem to be judged as being due to “lack of pride“, to think that certain human being, wouldn’t have learned “how to suppress’ their inner-feelings

Pride seem to have become “the main-goal” for human

Chances are, that their might even be many Exclusive Brethren too, who’d all be feeling highly distressed ,inwardly , about the excommunication caused by cult-dictate


Stoicism- would also dictate 

That Brethren would also have their own need to suppress public-expression of their “own inner feelings” as well too

(Even Brethren are also in this way trying to deny inner-feeling of their “true-self“)

Everybody doing-it doing-it doing-it

And this

This could then even become quite-acceptable as being like a-display of the person’s higher EQ

Isn’t that how it-rolls?



About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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