“Love the position”

They want the ex eb’s to learn to “love the position”

Don’t they?

All about upholding the “pride of position”

Isn’t it

Love still has very little to do with anything much of it …. Sadly

In other words they’d want us to learn to “love a harmful cult”

Wouldn’t they?

That’s what they are asking, of us, to do

At a time when this ex eb , could really do with the option to finally “feel truly loved” , unconditionally,  by his family

The family still remain steadfastly focused on “love of the-position”

So sad

Everyone of us who’s been associated with this cult, are all somewhat unstable emotionally. And are having ongoing trouble with our ability of re-stabilizing our-emotions. Both within the eb’s, and then also on the outside here among us ex ebs as well too

Everyone’s been affected, emotionally ,in one way or another

To detrimental affect

Some are been affect more, while others may have been affected somewhat less

Some react through expression of tears, while there are others who’ll react through expressing anger

But either way, everyone’s emotions are unstable and most everyone has all still been affected in ways what are been detrimental to our health

The instability of emotion is  plainly obvious to see within this video above (with reference to emotional stability of “insiders and also outsiders too”)

I feel sadden for everyone involved. Its all so unfair

Isn’t it ?

It’s unfair

It’s unjust

Look at the way how the fear has been able to be used like a tool . A tool to cause confusion. To strike fear into the heart of human and stunt their “ability to reason”

The worse part of all this, is the way what the exclusive brethren hierarchy, like Bruce Hales are so stupid that they’d even look upon the situation, like this is, as if it “might even be something funny

That’s how morally lost these people are?

Why be so low as to see-suffering as if its ever funny


How can people feel happy to laugh about it?

I don’t understand that

Its very shameful practice to think that cult hierarchy would be so-low and childish, that they’d even be prepared to be laughing about a situation “of suffering” such as this situation is like, and treat it like as if “its just some sort of joke”

That’s shameful practice

Isn’t it?

This situation is serious. It involves people messed-up emotion. Even has been the root of suicide… Many many times over

How can they be claiming charity status ?

Its a fairly sure sign of narcissism

God knows why Bruce Hales is silly enough to think its the ex ebs who should “be the ones to feel guilty” forhaving their unstable emotions”

Why wouldn’t we all have somewhat unstable emotion, after having experienced the kind of things like what we’ve been forced to have need to experience, due to our cult-connection

Why not?

That would be similar warped-judgement, to someone suggesting that perhaps it might be the sexually abused themselves, who’d have need to be the ones “who’d also be feeling guilty” for their experience of being sexually abused

That’s how warped “this line judgement” is

Its “back to front” judgment

The abuser, “would seek to blame the abused”, for the-abuse that they’d experienced

“Warped-as judgement”

Isn’t it?

Narcissist, such as Bruce Hales, will always try to shift the blame over onto someone else

Will they?

That’s a-Narcissism 101 type-trait … that is though .. isn’t it


Its exactly the type of trait of what “Narcissist inclined” people, have become “so well known” for always attempting to do

So we shouldn’t feel at all surprised, to learn, that Bruce Hales & co might be presently actively trying to do this

We should pretty much expect this “of them”

Should we?

In my view, there would seem to be a second concerted effort going on, right now, to try and get “as many” ex eb’s as is possible, back on side , with the cult

Second time around for another  false-hearted Brethren review

Its as if its also been purposely designed so as to help lesson “the heat”

And for sure, there will be those people,among ex eb’s, who’ll fall head-first ,into the trap, once again 

A fair amount of them, quite likely wont even suspect that this would have been what “had happened” to them, either

They wouldn’t know until later on down the track

At the end of the day, it will still have far more to do with money-gain, than gain of true love

Love wont have much to do with it

Its still secretly all about “upholding the position”

Is it?

Whats with the charity commission?

What more evidence would they require ?

How much more plain evidence would they demand

Would they even manage to finally “wake up” to the level of manipulation that’s still been going on, if in fact they’d even been hit over the head with it

Makes you wonder?

Makes you wonder

They don’t bother to take action, that’s long overdue, perhaps mainly because, it also doesn’t happen to affect any of “their own families lives”, personally, in any way whatsoever, at all

Is that why?

What more evidence would the charity commissions require


About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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