Emotionally Unavailable Mother

Human that lack strong family attachment bond,can be described to be like a ship that’s the sailing the sea, without a harbor to return to for safety

Its ok to give up on an emotionally absent parent.Or family members too. They are toxic people. If they won’t help work on making “the-relationships” happen. Then don’t bother, just give up on them. Life is a two way street.It doesn’t benefit you none, to continue to try and create a relationship with the kind of people who “wont ever bother to help”. Don’t waste your energy. It will begin to “wear you down” and can feel like you are been constantly “pushing shit uphill”. Chances are that they wont recognize that they’d have their own faults either.They won’t. They’ll likely be thinking that the problems are all “to do with you”. Specially so to if they “are believers”. They’ll be far to stupid to stop and think about themselves

Sadly the flip side of this problem, the problem of having emotionally unavailable mothers , and family members and so on, is that we may then be more inclined to try to “attach to the kind of people who’ll possibly end up hurting” us .

You’ll try attaching to anyone else who’ll seem available. This occurs, so as to help fill the void , being that your own family will remain unavailable 

Meanwhile, many of those family will be in meetings, praising their God, and acting as if they’d be “much better” than what you are

All be suffering from serious case of Godly-bigotry

Due to this situation, the cost is that ex member may then try to attach to anyone else who’ll seem more available

Evil human have used religion, as a tool, so as to help tear these family kinship attachments apart. So as to help themselves to gain control of wealth and power, for themselves

This lack of family attachment, phenomena, can be observed among eb and ex eb’s

 

But then the Brethren, including Bruce review wrecker Hales, are all silly enough to misinterpret this, family dysfunction, as being “a-sign”  that Brethrenism cult, is the right place for people to remain. They’ll misinterpret it as being a sign that the ex ebs are being punished by a God, for choosing to leave the Brethren

When

The truth is, that the phenomena stems from having mothers and family member’s too, who are all emotionally unavailable

Your whole family could very well, by now, all be acting far more like a “pack of brain dead zombie”

By now, they wouldn’t know what common sense was anymore, even if you “were to hit them right over the head” with it

They’d still remain none the wiser?

Chances are that their brain will have been so overcome by fear phobias, such as the fear of God that’s been correlated with the fear of hell and so on, that these people are now so completely overcome by fear, of which has been used as a tool against them, so as to gain control over them

You’ll have real big trouble to ever try and get them to see “good sense”

You might as well try and talk good sense “to a rock, or a brick wall”

Chances are you’d get far better results ?

Their brains will be so cluttered “by fear of God and fear of hell” etc, that there will now be so little room left for “any common sense” to prevail

Correct?

In affect, it can sometimes begin to feel like as if you’ve been constantly trying to push a large load of shit, uphill

All the info for the answer to these problem is available to everyone of us, online

But

Sadly the eb, wont find it, being how they are still stupid enough to allow themselves to continue to remain under the thumb of idiot’s like Bruce review wrecker Hales . And all he cares about is

“money and power”

He couldn’t care less if the Brethren’s family-lives are being wasted away

Bruce certainly wont be losing any of his own sleep over it

Will he?

Meanwhile the Brethren remain oblivious to whats been going down

They wouldn’t have a clue?

 

 

About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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