Jeez! The accusations keep rolling in!
My Mum is 79 today so I called her just now to wish her a Happy Birthday 😊 she thanked me for her card.
She is recovering well from her hip surgery on 25 Feb.
I asked her if she’d heard anything more from my visit to Chippenham early February. “Yes and no”, was the reply.
I wanted to inform her I’d learnt this week the brethren had been told of my visit to Chippenham, how “it was laughable I wanted to speak to Mr Hales, but I went away happy and no trouble was caused”. Mum wasn’t aware of this but oddly wouldn’t tell me what she had heard.
I told her I wanted her to be aware of the brethren in Chippenham being made aware of my visit, so as she knew I wasn’t the ‘attacker’ she labelled me two weeks ago!
“You must be against the brethren” she said. I asked how she arrived at that conclusion. “Well you tie these ribbons, and you must be doing it with other people”. I assured her I was at Chippenham alone and nobody knew I was going beforehand. “You’re trespassing” Mum said. I assured I was doing no such thing, “you weren’t in the car park then?” Mum said.
I assured Mum I wasn’t, and that she of all people should know I wouldn’t have been able to enter the car park due to the extreme security that’s in place. I did also remind her their halls were a place of public worship, hence the sign outside, so shouldn’t have been a problem if I’d managed to get beyond security.
Mum said I must be against the Brethren because I keep mentioning the charity commission. I told her the brethren had a duty to do what was requested by law in order for them to retain charitable status on their halls. I asked her if she’d seen the document, she assured me she has. I did say I doubted it had been made available to all the brethren, I also reminded her all I was wanting was a relationship with her and my family.
“You left the position Sarah, you can’t walk away from the position and expect things to carry on as if nothing is wrong”. I told Mum once again I was just wanting a relationship with my family. “How do you know the brethren aren’t adhering to the document?” asked Mum, I told her there were many former members who were being denied a relationship with their families. “But you left the position”, said Mum.
I reminded Mum I was kicked out for introducing my ex to the Brethren, and I had to flee the family home because a certain brother had been accusing me for two months of doing things I’d never done and I couldn’t cope with it mentally. “You didn’t need to leave” said Mum.
Mum wasn’t believing anything I said.
She kept saying I was attacking the brethren.
“Why do you tie these ribbons?” I told her the brethren needed to listen to what they’d been told and show some compassion to former members for a start.
Silence yet again.
I reassured Mum once again I wasn’t attacking the brethren.
I reminded Mum that two years ago, I went to see her to inform her of some sexual abuse that happened when I was 15 (before I went to the Police) and at that time, she believed me, was incredibly sorry. I told her at the time I was fearful of telling her something that happened so long ago for fear of being labelled a ‘liar’.
I also reminded Mum that two months later, she called me to tell me I was attacking the brethren. I asked her why she changed her mind, her response “because it was proved to not be true” 😳
I was astounded and told Mum, how sad so she believed a brethren leader over her own daughter, and reiterated that everything that happened was the truth. “I don’t know, it was sorted out and proved to not be true”. I told Mum nothing was sorted out, it was denied. I also told her she needed to wake up and stop thinking church elders were immune from committing such abuse, because it happens in all religious groups including non religious groups. I told her the brethren need to accept that such situations need to involve the authorities, it’s not something that can be wiped by God.
She didn’t want to know 😢
Once again she came back to the ribbons.
She then went on to accuse me of writing and tying ribbons on her own meeting hall gates with names of people WHOM I DIDNT EVEN KNOW EXISTED, I didn’t even know them as former members, somebody I had met since leaving 😳 😳 and despite the fact I told her I knew nothing about it, she still didn’t believe me.
Yet again, she said I was attacking the brethren. I reassured Mum I wasn’t interested in the brethren and what they get up to, but that I wanted a relationship with HER, MY MUM!
“Will you just leave us alone” came the bold statement!
Mum has assumed so, so much, it is astounding and equally heartbreaking.
The Brethren’s reasoning is totally flawed . It’s as if they must think that by claiming to believe in God, this should then absolve them of accountability . So that their group should be free to cause other people whatever harm they’d like, without any fear of facing scrutiny or reproach
Imagine if it were a situation of what were to involve a street gang.The hell’s Angels or Black power or whoever. Would the Brethren then be demanding that these group could be able to get away with doing what ever they’d please, without fear of facing scrutiny or reproach
Would Brethren still see things that way then
What if it were a situation of what were to involve some Muslim. Would the Brethren still be making the same demands too then
What is it with Brethren. When will the Brethren wake up and come to their senses . Will they ever wake up
At present, they are been acting no different than to how the street gangs will also do
Its all about upholding the position
Whether the position is good, or decent, or moral, or worthy of worship…. And so on
Is considered to be beside the point
Considered as “not worth contemplating”
- If you’d dare to leave the gang position, then the remaining gang members will have need to try to do things, to punish you
- If you’d dare to leave the Brethren position, then the remaining Brethren gang member will have need to try to do things, to punish you too
Same old same old bullshit
All about upholding the position of tyranny
Truth be known
Half the Brethren possibly wont even actually believe in a God at all anyway
More than likely they secretly wont do
They’ll still have need to pretend as if they might do though
Or otherwise the Brethren will be angry that they’d have left the position
This is the extent of utter stupidity of this situation
Whats wrong with the Brethren
Their reasoning is flawed
Brethren still choose to act like a ship of fools
How blindly stupid can Brethren be. Acting like a bunch of fool by their socially backward way of punishing anyone who’d dare to be openly honest
No wonder the Brethren have become overrun by a pack of liars
Brethren have been inclined to be constantly punishing the-people who’d dare to choose to be openly honest
Now the Brethren are run by the evil people, like Bruce review wrecker Hales. The kind of people who’s moral are so low low, that they’d be quite happy to attempt to cover up sex abuses, by creating contract to pay to silence the whistle blower
How did it happen?
They made the-position to become like-God
“The Brethren chose to worship the position“
They worship the Brethren-position . God has been sidelined
Poor of heart. Poor of moral. Socially backward to the-max
The poor things
They’d act like a complete bunch of idiot….. Yet still mange to remain absolutely none the wiser
Still be lost to explain valid reason for why anyone of us ex eb’s might have ever dared to try leaving from “the position”
That’s how mindlessly thick those Brethren backward bogan have allowed themselves to have become
Their position is obviously crap… And yet Brethren remain none the wiser
Still sailing on blindly-ahead like
A ship of fools
Their noses still shoved right up the butt-cheeks of Bruce review wrecker Hales & co
Acting as if they’d be able to brown nose their way into eternal life in heaven
It might be hilarious too
If it wasn’t for the reality of the extent of harm of like what it causes to people like Sarah Rowlands
When will the Brethren wake up
Your “Brethren position” is most certainly nothing that anyone of you, should have any reason to still feel proud of
God most certainly wont feel proud of it
That’s for sure
You’ve been led by evil people who’ve been even willing to create contract to cover up evidence of sex abuses
Their tactic have been exposed
There is no question that your hierarchy have been up to no good
Makes you wonder
What the hells wrong with our governments
They need to wake-up too
Why are they still supporting these
By way of still rewarding them through charity status
How can that be happening?
Our government ought to be ashamed
They have acted irresponsibly
Given very little concern for the health and safety of their citizen
Us ex member really ought to be suing our governments