I wonder do cult members ever consider the level of hurt that they’d help to cause?

How can cult members ever allow themselves to become so damn heartless?

That’s a question what i’ll sometimes wonder about

Feels heartbreaking for me to listen to the words relayed within this poem. I sense the depth of hurt, and struggle what this woman faces. Having been there in facing up to similar situation too,sometimes in time past, myself. It seems unbelievable, to me now, to think that human could ever allow themselves to become so cruel. I just hope that this women will find the love and kindness, and support like what she so totally deserves, and now will surely need to be able to find. I hope so

Even so,i feel, that the cult members themselves, are not the ones who’d ever be “totally at fault” here either. Loads of them will have also been “born into” these oppressive religious groups. Wont they. As ex cult member ourselves, we’ve hopefully begun to learn that the idea of “just leaving” , can “sound far easier” to do, than what it actually ends up being-like in reality

And therefore we really need be real about it

Reality matters

Although not totally the same. It can still be rather similar to the struggle of someone who’d been born into a country controlled by a dictatorship. From a outsiders point of view, perhaps it may look as if it could be simply choice to just choose to leave. And yet, unless you can leave and find a way to take all your whole family along with you. Then the reality is, that its not anywhere near “as simple” as it might (at first glance) look to be, from “the outsiders” misinformed viewpoint 

Therefore why

Reality really matters 

Its the rest of the countries citizen who stand by and do nothing to stop it. Those are the ones who’d also be best placed to be able to be of more assistance too, which are also the very same people who’d be “less likely” to bother to assist, sadly so.

And all because, of how, the problem itself, wont necessarily need to concern themselves, directly/personally (men will react the same way too, toward problem that directly concern womenfolk. IE: because of the way how, the women’s-problems, wont ever need to be of any “direct concern” to the menfolk themselves. Its women’s problem,of what therefore will also only be “directly-experienced” by the womenfolk themselves, too. In other-word’s, those particular problem don’t seem to concern the-men “directly”)

Human often still fail to see how their lives would all be-interconnect 

Those are the subtle detail of what are easily overlooked so that we’d fail to understand, unless it might so happen to “concern ourselves” directly 

So People not unlucky enough to be born into cult, then they don’t need to deal with struggles like what this is “directly” ,do they

Whats wrong with the so called “real” Christians. The mainstream believer

Do they also have hearts made of stone too

Do they?

Those people were evidently supposed to act “like a moonbeam” for progression of moral justice 

Were they?

Have they become nearly as heartless as like what the cult members are

How can they stand by in silence. How can they continue to allow these situation to continue to go unnoticed to the extent like the way what they still do . To be “left unattended” 

Is this what they feel that Jesus would allow ?

The believers are the ones who’d be the ones to “hold the key” that could serve to help fast track change. They do. They are the ones , in contact with their organized religious group, who could then therefore also help organize to steer their groups toward government to “help petition” the government to intervene 

To help further the cause of social justice

They could ?

And yet, it pretty much seems as if they’d grown to be nearly as “heartless too“, as like what the cult groups also are like

Meanwhile, secular society has grown used to their way of living as if this kind of problem doesn’t exist. Generally speaking, they do so, because of the way its now also been able to become a “traditional way” for the secular-citizens to react

Secular society has been conditioned to learn to react in this way. Partly due to the way that religion had also always been more organized. Being more organized, they always have the upper hand in what would then be agreed upon , even within secular society, as being agreed-upon as being-traditional

And also the problem, isn’t directly-concerning “anyone much” within secular society


Generally speaking.Very few people are “so-unlucky” as to be born-into a cult


Should the secular citizen gather enough energy, to care to question the rights of these cult

What happens ?

All the so called “real Christian” will suddenly organize themselves, and quickly step-forward an appear out of the wood word

To help produce a highly-organised “counter-measure”, so as to rally to petition against any government plans to create change to the traditional rules 

They hold the-key of retaining the upper-hand

Via they way of being able to be highly organized

Which then means, that the resulting outcome, would still end up like the picture what follows below



About ExEB

I'm a agnostic/atheist . Interested in learning more about science. I also am an "ex-member" of a group most publicly known within modern times, as the Exclusive Brethren. Whom are an off-shoot of the original Plymouth Brethren group. I'd say it likely my personality could possibly be described as quirky.You know ,as in being , unconventional , unorthodox , unusual, off-centre, strange, bizarre, weird, peculiar, odd, freakish, outlandish, offbeat, out of the ordinary, bohemian, alternative, zany I'm sure iv'e been classed as "crazy" . Many times But then, being born into a group like the exclusive brethren. Doesn't lend itself ? to tend to produce things considered as being "very normal" .Does it I escaped the Exclusive Brethren cult as a 15 year old teenager. Even since that time iv'e been trying to adjust to living life outside the cult. With much of my life being lived within the genre of "wild colonial boy" style. In the general sense of a church-rebel picking and choosing from role models who appeared within-life along the way. But as the exclusive brethren cult had traditionally maintained a general church-rule , of need to shun and totally excommunicate any ex member of their group.Treating such people as if they were dead. Thus this situation developed more to do with my need of following traditionally enforced church-rule , as apposed to it being so much about "life-choices". Certain emotional experiences, and parts of life in general, have led to me adopting a sense of low self esteem. Which is a situation i still deal with from time to time. Through my ongoing interest in science. I find i am able to gather more information to help me better understand my situation. Much about life for me, has often seemed like a massive puzzle.With many missing pieces.
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