When To Cut Toxic Family Members From Your Life

Number 5 is definitely a consideration with family with religious backgrounds. Even friend relationships, with people who do religion. Its difficult to strike up a real authentic relationship when religion gets involved, unless perhaps you are a religious club member as well too

The less the person is a believer, then the better your chances also often are of developing a real authentic relationship too. Or otherwise you might find out that Sunday has become an “off limit time” , when it will “suddenly be” as if your relationship hadn’t even existed

But then this was what was always intended to occur. Even when colonization had happen to first nation people lives, religion sort to impose boundary, for introduction of time limit, to dictate when and where and then “when-not” family member would be allowed to remain “authentic and close”

It needed to happen, so as to condition people, so that money could then also be extracted to keep “filling the church coffer”, of what would then also allow the religious group to become most powerful 

Even after family have gotten away from religious practices. They’ll still struggle to ever properly regain truly two-sided authentic family-relationship, ever again

Same problem too with traditional first nation families/whanau/kinship as well

Almost impossible to ever-regain what was lost

Silly part is, that religion was evidently supposed to help break down, and bring an end to acts of tribalism.

Does it?

Yeah nah, it really doesn’t

“Religious tribalism” simply came and replaced the original family tribalism roots

But what it does help to do, is to allow human to be fooled/duped into believing it has changed for better

They’ll faithfully believe it

I don’t bother with one sided relationship, for to long., anymore. As its toxic.

In this sense, i now have an adopted family, who kindly chose to adopt me themselves, i now can tell how they ALWAYS act “far more like real authentic” family toward me, than what any other flesh and blood family member ever has

I happen naturally too. And flows easily. No particular days of the week exist when our relationship is suddenly turned into “off-limit” no go time

Doesn’t have need to happen

So

It is also these people who i’d also want to have “hovering over my graveside” . Not some blood-family-twat ,who’ll likely just “suddenly arrive” on the scene, to come and shed a huge bunch of crocodile tears

Yeah nah fuck that shit

Our world is now brimming full of those people. They are become like a dime a dozen, to find